Lord Hattersley: How my married mother ran off with the priest two weeks after he officiated at her wedding
|L to R Roy, mother Enid and Father Father|
Catherine Pepinster THE TELEGRAPH
When a Catholic priest runs off with the bride at whose wedding he officiated just two weeks before, it inevitably causes a scandal.
Even more so when the priest Frederick Hattersley and his lover Enid O’Hara became parents a little over a year later to a child who will become one of the towering and most popular political figures of the late 20th century.
But only now can the full story of how Lord Hattersley’s father snatched his mother from her husband can be disclosed. In a new book written by the Labour Party’s former deputy leader, he reveals the astonishing family saga that eventually led to his father being excommunicated from the Catholic Church.
Lord Hattersley’s latest version of how he came into being is altogether racier than a slightly more anodyne tale he first learnt upon his father’s death in 1973.
Lord Hattersley with his mother and father on a family holiday in Bridlington 1937
Lord Hattersley never knew about his father’s past during his lifetime. For years he thought Frederick Hattersley, despite his extraordinary in-depth knowledge of the history of the Catholic Church and the arcane workings of the Vatican, had been a local government clerk or else unemployed.
But upon his death, he received a condolence letter from a bishop informing him that his father had been a Catholic priest.
At the time Enid Hattersley was married to John O’Hara, a miner. She told her son, then aged in his 40s, that she had left her first husband after falling in love with the priest when he arrived at her workplace at the local coal merchant’s to order a delivery of coal. Over time, the two grew fond of each other and eventually Enid and Frederick ran off.
Or at least that’s how Enid Hatterlsey, who went on to become Lord Mayor of Sheffield, told it.
Writes Lord Hattersley in the book’s introduction: “My father - parish priest of St Joseph’s church in Shirebrook, Nottingham - had met my mother after he agreed to ‘instruct’ her for admission to the Catholic Church in anticipation of her marriage to a young collier.
“Father Hattersley had performed the wedding ceremony. Two weeks later the priest and the bride ran away together. For the next forty-five years they lived in bliss - married after my mother’s first husband died in 1956.”
O’Hara, wishing to avoid being at the centre of the scandal, also moved on. He died intestate in Mansfield in July 1956. His estate valued at £373 12s 10d was left to his ex-wife, suggesting he never remarried nor had children.
Frederick and Enid Hattersley finally married a few months later, prompting his ex-communication because in the Church’s eyes he was still a priest and forbidden to marry.
Lord Hattersley was only told the true story after a meeting with the Bishop of Nottingham, which the former Labour politician had arranged as part of his research for a novel loosely based around his father’s life story as he then understood it.
Lord Hattersley, 84, told The Telegraph: “My parents met when he was instructing her to join the Catholic Church, they fell in love and they decided nothing could be done about it. He officiated at the wedding ceremony and they ran away two to three weeks later.
“My father and I were very close. It was a very hard act for him to walk away from the church and I was very proud of him for doing that.”
Lord Hattersley has alluded to the extraordinary affair before, writing a new introduction to his 1983 autobiography A Yorkshire Boyhood as long ago as 2001 following the death of his mother in May that year.
“She [Enid] kept house for her invalid mother, although she had by then married a miner called John O’Hara,” wrote The Telegraph, “When she was 27, however, Fr Frederick Hattersley (always known as Roy, his second name) called to order winter coal for his presbytery. After a brief courtship conducted perforce in secret, they decided to marry.”
This is just ONE MORE story of a priest having a child.
In the past the children of priests were as much buried as the poor Tuam Babies.
Priest's children were a cause of shame in the Church and in society and they were treated as shame ridden and a scandal.
Of course the poor child was not to blame at all. His / her only "crime" was to be born the son / daughter of a priest.
The Church usually moved the priest to a far away parish.
Sometimes the Church convinced the woman to have the child adopted.
Sometimes the Church paid the woman for a lifetime of silence.
It is good that we are living in an era WHEN ALL THE CATHOLIC DIRTY LINEN is being brought out into the open.
Thank God for the modern society.
Thank God for a free media.